Advice Columnist, Jayce Baron, responds to anonymous questions from our readers via our Facebook Page Message section and email. Jayce’s direct approach will change your perspective and enlighten you.

My ex and I broke up 3 years ago. He’s had different girlfriends since, but I’ve always stayed in the picture (sometimes at the same time as the new girls). He says I’m the one, but continues to date others because he’s “not ready for the real deal.” Am I patiently waiting for nothing?

ASK JAYCE: Run! If he “knows” you are the one yet he does not want to lock you down says that you are not worth it and it’s okay if you decide you want to walk away. The reason he keeps calling is because he knows you will continue to answer and entertain his indecisive ass. It sounds like you two do have some type of love or toxic gravity towards each other by the longevity of this relationship, but the logic of the situation is flawed and dishonest. Playing the side chick is the same as the runner-up. You lost. Pray and push.

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